"Helicopterparenting"describesastyleofraisingchildrenwhereparentsareover

protectiveanddotoomuch．Itdescribesparentswhowatchovertheirkidsathomeandontheplaygroundlikeahelicopter．Today，moderntechnologyallowsthesehelicopterparentstowatchoverfromevenfaraway．（36）___

JulieLythcottwroteabooktitledBreakFreeoftheOverparentingTrapandPrepare

YourKidsforSuccess．Inherbook．shegivesreadersacloserlookatthisparentingstyle．（37）___

JulieLythcottsayssheexperiencedtheeffectsofhelicopterparentingfirsthandwhensheworkedasdeanoffirstyearstudents．（38）___Butmanywereunabletotakecareofthemselves．Heywereturningtoparentsconstantlyforguidance，forproblemsolving，tohavethemmakethechoiceaboutsomething．

Sowhatcanparentsdoiftheywanttobreaktheover-parenting"helicopter"cycle？（39）___◆Stopsaying"we"whenyoumeanyoursonoryourdaughter．Alltoooftenaparentwouldsay"weareonthetravelsoccerteam．"Well，no，yoursonisoryourdaughteris．

◆Stoparguingwithalloftheadultsinourkids？lives．Youneedtoteachyourkidstoadvocateforthemselves．

◆Stopdoingyourkids'homework．

◆（40）___Teachthemtocrossthestreet，makeameal，andremembertoputtheirownitemsintheirbackpacks，whichbecomesabriefcaseoneday．

Whenkidshavealltheskillstotakecareofthemselves，theywillbepreparedfor

A．Fourwaysareofferedtostopwatchingoveryourchildren．

B．Shealsoexplainswhyparentsshouldstopit．

C．It'sagoodideatoencourageyourkidtodothethingshecanbyhimself．

D．Theycangivetheirchildrendirectionsatanymomentfromanywhere．

E．Buildyourkids'skills．

F．Thefreshmenwereverysmartandaccomplishedonpaper．

G．Yourkidiseagerformorefreedom，butshouldyougiveittohim？