Itislovethatmakestheworldgoround.Anditisalsolovethathassuchpowertoovercomealldifficulties.Sowesay:“Lovewillfindaway.”Assmileisafacialexpressionshowingpleasure,affection,andfriendliness,itisthecommonestwaytoshowourgoodwillperfectlywithoutsayinganything.AChinesesayingruns:“neverhitapersonwhoissmilingatyou.”Itisatime-provenfactthatthesmileisalanguageallitsown—auniversallanguage—understoodbythepeopleofeverynationintheworld.Wemaynotspeakthesametongueasourforeignneighbors,butwesmileinthesametongue.Weneednointerpreterforthusexpressinglove,happiness,orgoodwill.
OnedaywhileshoppinginasmalltowninsouthernCalifornia,itwasmymisfortunetobeapproachedbyaclerkwhosepersonalitycontradictedmine.Heseemedmostunfriendlyandnotatallconcernedaboutmyintendedpurchase.Iboughtnothing,andmarchedangrilyoutofthestore.Myangertowardthatgrewwitheachstep.Outside,standingatthecorner,wasadark-complexionyoungmaninhisearlytwenties.Hisexpressivebrowneyesmetandheldmine,andinthenextinstantabeautiful,dazzlingsmilecoveredhisface.Igaveinimmediately.Themagneticpowerofthatshiningsmiledroveawayallbitternesswithinme,andIfoundthemusclesinmyownfacehappilyresponding.“Beautifulday,isn’tit?”Iremarked,inpassing.The,suddenlysomethinginsidemesentmeturningback.“Ireallyoweyouadebtofgratitude,”Isaidsoftly.Hissmiledeepened,buthemadenoattempttoanswer.AMexicanwomanandtwomenwerestandingnearby.Thewomansteppedforwardandeyedmeinquiringly.“Carlos,henospeakEnglish,”shevolunteered.“YouwantIshouldtellhimsomething?”InthatmomentIfelttransformed.Carlos’smilehadmadeabigpersonofme.Myfriendlinessandgoodwilltowardallmankindstoodtenfeettall.“Yes,”myreplywasenthusiasticandsincere,“tellhimIsaid‘Thankyou!’”“Thankyou?”Thewomanseemedslightlypuzzled.IgaveherarmafriendlypatasIturnedtoleave.“Justtellhimthat,”Iinsisted.“He’llunderstand.Iamsure!”Oh,whatasmilecando!AlthoughIhaveneverseenthatyoungmanagain,Ishallneverforgetthelessonhetaughtmethatmorning.
Fromthatdayon,Ibecamesmile–conscious,andIpracticethediligently,anywhereandeverywhe