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Asasayinggoes“Ifyouhaveagoodfriendyourjoysaredoubledandyoursorrowsarehalved”.Friendsareahelpinghandacomfortingshouldertoleanonapatienteartolistentoyouandmostimportantlyawarmandlovinghugtoembrace(拥抱)you.Manisasocialanimalbynature.Weallneedfriendsastheyarethereforuswhenweneedsupportjustaswearethereforthemwhenevertheyneedus.Thereforeitisnecessaryforyoutoknowhowtomakefriends.
Thefirststepistoopenyourselfup.Ifyouwanttomakegoodfriendsyoushouldbeabletoshareyourthoughtsandfeelingswithotherpeoplefirst.Onlywhenyousharesomethingofyourselfwithotherscanyoubeginmakingfriends.Whenyourfriendsopenaconversationwithyoutheyareusuallyexpectingyoutoshareinformationinreturn.Thatistosaywhenyouareinaconversationyou’dbetterexpressyourownthoughtsandfeelings.Ifaconversationisone-sidedthepersondoingallthetalkingmaythinktheotherpersonisnotinterestedinwhatheissaying.Sowhentalkingwithyourfriendsbesurethattheconversationisatwo-waystreet.
Oneofthemostimportantkeystobuildingasolidfriendshipwithotherpeopleistolistentothem—reallylisten.Whenyourfriendstellyousomethingthathappenedtothemorcomplain(埋怨)aboutasituationtheyareusuallynotlookingforagreementbutjustwanttobeheard.Sodon’ttrytochangetheirmindorsolvetheirproblemsjustletthemknowthatyouarelisteningtothem.
Respectingyourfriendsisalsoimportanttokeepyourrelationshipshealthyandstrong.Lookingatyourfriendswhiletheyaretalkingtoyouisonewaytoshowyourrespectastheywillfeelthatwhattheyaresayingisimportanttoyou.
Unconditionalsupportandencouragementisoneofthethingswhichfriendshave.Truefriendshipmeansofferingashoulderwhentheyneeditcryingwiththemwhentheyaresadandlaughingwiththemwhentheyarehappy.Onlyinthiswaycanthetreeoffriendshiplastforalongtime.
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Friendsmakeyourhappinessmoreandyoursadnessless. Friendsarealwaysreadyto(2)______you. |
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