请帮我概括一下这段英语~大约100字左右,

Neighborvs.Neighbor

Thewomanintheapartmentupstairsplaysherpianoaftermidnight.

Thefamilyacrossthestreetnevercleansuptheiryard.Thegarbageblowsintoyouryard.

Theguynextdooralwaysparkshiscarinfrontofyourdriveway.

Havethingslikethiseverhappenedtoyou?Ifso,youmayaskyourself,“Whoarethesepeople?Whyaretheydoingthesethingstome?”

Thesedays,manypeopledon’tknowtheirneighbors.Sometimesweshareafriendlywaveorsayhello,butalotofpeopledon’tevenknowtheirneighbor’snames!Whenyoudon’tknowsomeone,it’seasytobuildupfrustrationandresentment.Youthink,“Maybetheyliketoannoyme,”or“Maybetheydoitdeliberately.”Believeitornot,yourneighborsprobablydon’tmeantoirritateyou.Often,theydon’tevenknowthatthey’regettingonyournerves.Sobeforeyoutakeextrememeasurestofixtheproblem,youshoulddiscussitwiththemfirst.

Whenyouapproachyouneighbors,youshouldtalktotheminafriendlymanner.Complimenttheirchildrenordosomethingelsetomakethemfeelgood.Thenexplainthesituation.Andifyoucanthinkofasimplesolution,suggestit.

Iftalkingdoesn’twork,askanotherpersontohelp.Thispersoncanlistentobothsidesofthestoryandhelpyouandyourneighborresolvethesituation.

Finally,sometimesit’sagoodidestoavoidtheproblem.Dependingontheissue,itmightbebesttojuststayoutofyourneighbor’sway.