【阅读理解“WhenoneofthedoctorscriticizesmeIgetdefensive．IfeellikeachildagainbeingscoldedandIwanttoexplainthatI’mnotwrong．”saysViolaanurse．Thisisacommon】|小学英语问答-字典翻译问答网

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【阅读理解“WhenoneofthedoctorscriticizesmeIgetdefensive．IfeellikeachildagainbeingscoldedandIwanttoexplainthatI’mnotwrong．”saysViolaanurse．Thisisacommon】

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阅读理解

　　“WhenoneofthedoctorscriticizesmeIgetdefensive．IfeellikeachildagainbeingscoldedandIwanttoexplainthatI’mnotwrong．”saysViolaanurse．Thisisacommonreactiontocriticismbutnotagoodone．Therearebetterwaysofdealingwithcriticism．

　　WhenSolwascriticizedbyhisnewemployerfornothavingmadeasaleSol’sreactionwastofeelsorryforhimself．“IhadputeverythingIhadintomakingthatsale”Solsays“andIfeltthatIhadfailedasaperson．Ihadtolearnthroughexperiencenottoreactlikethattoeachfailure．

　　Ratherthanreactingimmediatelytocriticismtakesometimetothinkoverwhatwassaid．Yourfirstquestionshouldbewhetherthecriticismisfairfromtheotherperson’sposition．Theproblemmaybeasimplemisunderstandingofwhatyoudidoryourreasonsfordoingit．

　　Afteryoucooldownconsiderwhatyoucandoaboutthesituation．Thebestanswermaybe“nothing”．“IfinallyrealizedthatmybosswashavingpersonalproblemsandtakingthemoutonmebecauseIwasthere”saysSheila．“Hiscriticismdidn’treallyhaveanythingtodowithmyworksonothingIsaidordidwasgoingtochangethem．”InSheila’scasethebestwaytodealwithitwastoleaveherjob．Howeverthat’sanextremereaction．Youmaysimplyexplainyouropinionwithoutexpectinganin-depthdiscussion．Youmayevendecidethatthebattleisn’tworthfightingthistime．Thekeyinanycaseistohaveareasonableplan．

WhenSolwascriticizedbyhisemployerhe________．

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arguedbitterlywithhisemployer

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wasangryandgaveuphisjob．

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wassorryforwhathedid

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wassadandself-pitying

Accordingtothewriteryoushouldtaketime

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